Why does it seem as if it is common for fathers to be not valued equally or as equal to their counterparts, leading to the idea that absentee fathers are more prevalent?

For a variety of reasons, absentee fathers were common in my generation.  

My circumstance is different from a lot of people's. Nevertheless, my circumstances highlight the possibility that fathers can establish a good relationship starting by simply being present, regardless of the circumstances. 

Throughout my life, I have never been shy about stating that my father and I were not always the best of friends. In retrospect, I admire his tenacity, courage, and strength to fill the void, which I did not realize was necessary. My perspective and ideology are influenced by my father's example of how hard work and love can overcome adversity. 

 One of the strongest people I know is my superhero, the man God placed in my life to teach me to accept myself, love unapologetically, and work hard. As an adult, my best moments are spent conversing with my father!